“I’m queer. I have a lot of really wonderful friends who are of very different sexes and genders. I am very much in love with no one in particular. I’ve been trying to figure out relationships, you know? I don’t know if it’s responsible for kids of my age to be so aggressively pursuing monogamous binds, because I don’t think we’re ready for them. The romanticism within our culture dictates that that’s what you’re supposed to be looking for. Then [when] we find what we think is love — even if it is love — we do not yet have the tools. I do feel that it’s possible to be at this age unintentionally hurtful, just by being irresponsible — which is fine. I’m super down with being irresponsible. I’m just trying to make sure my lack of responsibility no longer hurts people. That’s where I’m at in the boyfriend/girlfriend/zefriend type of question.”
—    Ezra Miller

      I told my bestie(the one that I run this beautiful blog with) that Ezra Miller must be a Libra because he’s so flexible and thats the very definition of Libra. After she read the quote she said: “Oh thats overly Libra thats I wish life was pancakes Libra” which got me started on a huge rant about the nature of Libra and of air signs in general. I laughed and said “life was pancakes! Oh my god thats every Libra’s life forever!” I said this because they come before Scorpio and thats what they have and will always think forever. Scopios are more like “yeah, I know life isn’t fair and it will never be fair” and Libra keeps pushing and pushing and pushing for it to be all pretty, fair, balanced, easy, and flexible. Its painful, really. She laughed and I told her that it is! That I kind of feel sorry for them sometimes because they’re scrambling around so much for that and they don’t just accept it and everything like Scorpio does. In my opinion its a bit annoying, but thats my opinion. Because they’re so objective.

      They want to balance everything out so much it becomes compulsive and annoying. They’re kind of like Pisces…in the way that they are neither here nor there about things. Which annoys the shit out of me as an Aries. Ahaha! Pisces is indecisive and flaky but Libra does it out of wanting be objective and nice. Because, they think its nice and objective to see all sides to things. For example, Ezra Miller’s quote is very “oh, I am trying to balance everything and view everything objectively—sooo…I am neither here nor there and I can and it can go either way and I’d like to please everyone”. SOOO Libra.

     I think the thing with Libra is the fact that they are trying to please everyone and in doing so they please no one. Because, there is no such thing as pleasing everyone or even objectivity because human beings have too much invested in things. We’re not robots. Thats the trouble with Air signs in general at times. They think we’re robots in one way or another. Gemini is much to analytical and objective because their minds work like calculators, Libra is objective and wants everything balanced because they want to please everyone. Aquarius is just…much to airy and they let go too easily. They want everything much too free where in they think no one should belong to anyone and no one should have any kind of weight to anything. They want the OVERCOMING of the human experience in a way where they want to push everything out of us that in fact makes us very human in the first place. I think thats their lesson to kind of…learn.

Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn Moons don’t like to let their emotions devour them. They’ll become parents and will sit their emotions in a corner facing the wall until they can manage them properly. Earth moons, (particularly Capricorn Moons) look down a bit on people who can’t handle their own issues and who rub them on other people. They’re very conservative in the way they express their emotions - particularly their vulnerable ones. 

You can split these moons three ways - Taurus Moon people are sensitive and will be understanding to people who are moreso, but have a breaking point. Virgo Moon people can tend to be completely paranoid about how others perceive them, how they’re coming off and are usually quite neurotic. Capricorn Moon people try to do away with their emotions all together. They’d rather put their emotions on the back burner than letting their subjectivity prevent them from focusing on what’s important in life. They’re the, “Turn off the water works” - kind of people. 

Want to know if you’ve got an earthy moon? Click Here

The problem that many girls that have earthy and watery placements face (we see this at least twice every few days) that HATE the fact that they’re sensitive and prefer stability and monogamy in relationships. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. 

We want people to realize that everyone’s chart is a series of checks and balances. While you’re off wishing you were someone else, what you naturally have in YOU is something that someone could need in a friend that doesn’t naturally have that in THEM. 

People that are very airy and fiery NEED a friend who’s stable and who’ll be grounded enough to drag them out of their fantasies before they swim out too far in the deep end. Whereas watery and earthy people NEED a friend who’ll shake them up from burying themselves in their emotions from time to time. We all exist to BALANCE each other out. 

This is ESPECIALLY crucial in romantic relationships. If you’re a woman who thinks you can handle a guy who’ll probably forget the fact that you sucked him off the next day, you shouldn’t be lurking his facebook wall wondering if he’s secretly into the girls that are randomly posting on it. 

LOVE YOURSELF. Imagine if someone came into your body and jacked everything that makes you amazing? How much would that SUCK?  

Exactly. 

1. Use this link to see what your dynamics are - Click Here
2. For a relationship - If your moons match, do it 
3. For a one night stand - if your mars and venus signs match, do it
4. Moon sign = How you express yourself emotionally
5. Mars / Venus = How you express your actions, your sex drive and express affection 

Guide -

1. Air signs = gemini, libra, aquarius
2. Fire signs = aries, leo, sagittarius
3. Water signs = cancer, scorpio, pisces
4. Earth signs =  taurus, virgo, capricorn 

Stable Relationships = (based on moon sign) -

• > If your moon sign and theirs are in the same sign
• > If your moon sign and theirs are in the same element
• > If your moon sign and theirs are in elements that like each other

(Ex. Air and Fire like each other and Water and Earth like each other, but Air and Water don’t like each other and Fire and Earth don’t like each other)

Great NSA Sex = The guide above applies, but you can mix and match. The most EXPLOSIVE  sex can occur when you mix elements that don’t like each other.  

A “moon sign” is how you express and internalize your emotions. In the zodiac, each of the planets are governed by a particular sign (or a handful of them in some cases). In this case, the moon is Cancer’s territory. This means that it’s the foundation of all emotional development. 

1. Moon In Aries = Your emotions are tied to your pride. You pretend you can’t be hurt.
2. Moon In Taurus = Your emotions are balanced and you don’t let them control you. 
3. Moon In Gemini = Your emotions are filtered through rationality and logic. 
4. Moon In Cancer = Your emotions have a mind of their own and you’re very sensitive.
5. Moon In Leo = Your emotions are tied to your ego. You’re secretly quite fragile. 
6. Moon In Virgo = Your emotions are tied to control/order. You try to organize them.
7. Moon In Libra = You prefer to balance your emotions out, choosing rationality.
8. Moon In Scorpio = Your emotions are usually hidden; they’re intense/overpowering.
9. Moon In Sagittarius = You’re emotionally independent and prefer to have your space.
10. Moon In Capricorn = You keep your emotions at bay and minimize their influence. 
11. Moon In Aquarius = You believe that you can ‘rise above’ your emotions. 
12. Moon In Pisces = Your emotions are tied to the sacrifices you make for others.