11 . 01 . 2013
Anonymous asked
What's the compatibility with Female: Sun Leo, Moon Aquarius, Mercury, Mars & Venus Virgo/Male Sun Libra, Moon Capricorn, Mercury Virgo, Mars Gemini & Venus Virgo?

Nearly perfect I think. The only problem is that with all of that virgo loading each of their charts, they might drive each other crazy with how neurotic and skeptical they can be. They’re both EXTREMELY level headed and would rather strategize than go head first into anything - and they find that sexy in each other. Another problem is that the guy might occasionally want a little bit more sexual variety than the girl is willing to handle. 

He’ll be like, “Why don’t we try a threesome?” and she’ll respond with, “But you don’t know where those people’s bodies have been! Why aren’t I enough for you?” - and a 50 minute fight ensues over 20 seconds of dialogue. 

1 year ago
Anonymous asked
I have a Sun & Venus in Taurus, a Sag Moon and an Aries Mars. Is that enough fire to handle a bad boy?

Depends. Whats in your 7th and 8th houses? And what do you interpret a bad boy to be? If you perceive a bad boy as intense and complex, then having a scorpio or piscean 8th house would work. If you think a bad boy is supposed to be like a peter pan figure with tons of wanderlust who you can never figure out, then having a 7th or 8th in an air sign or fire sign would mean that you can handle it. 

1 year ago
Anonymous asked
What do you think about these two charts for compatibility? Woman - Taurus Sun, Taurus Venus, Sag Moon, Aries Mars. Man - Libra Sun, Scorpio Venus, Cancer Moon, Capricorn Mars.

These two will attempt to outdo each other will who can be the most sensual. Emotionally, the woman might not understand him because the woman’s sag moon says, “Worry about your feelings later,” while the cancer moon says, “But all I do is FEEL in general!” 

She’s going to charm the pants off of him because she’ll seem impossible to catch without really trying. He’ll want to try to wine and dine her because he respects her level headedness and probably thinks that she’d make a fantastic girlfriend. 

I think that the’d make a good pair. If they work, it’ll be on account of him feeling challenged by her need to be dominated in a new way every time. If they don’t work, it’ll be on account of her accidentally hurting his feelings and accusing him of being passive aggressive. 

1 year ago
Anonymous asked
Aquarius, Pisces moon, Aqua Venus, Taurus Mars, Pisces VII, Aires VIII. What on earth am I looking for? Virgo/Libra asc. Thanks for the help.u.u

You want someone that’s going to be more eccentric, quirky or fascinating than most of the population. You tend to get swept away by things very easily and your senses are very refined and you love it when you find the depth within all aspects of life. 

Don’t even go “looking” for love. Just let it come to you. Astrologically, what’ll drive you wild will be someone who’s probably a Scorpio-Sagittarius mix. The scorpio will sweep you away while the sagittarius will constantly keep you wondering. Make sure you get one that can commit though. Sometimes those young sag’s have wanderlust. 

1 year ago
Anonymous asked
Hello. I was wondering if I could get your opinion on the compatibility of these arrangements. I'm a Aries with a Sagittarius Moon, Mercury in Pisces, Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Leo. He's an Gemini with a Taurus Moon, Mercury in Taurus, Venus in Leo, and Mars in Gemini.

I’m sensing a LOT of compatibility between them because some of their placements intersect. The Leo Venus will understand the Leo Mars and how they act around each other may appear very synchronized. In love, he’ll want to woo his partner and will drain half his bank account to see them happy. The Leo Mars is going to find that very sexy because they’re naturally very passionate and can recognize that within people. 

A Gemini with a Taurus Moon, Mercury and a Gemini Mars makes someone very level headed about EVERYTHING. At times, you might be a bit too hot tempered for his test. Its in your nature to act first, think second because your emotions bounce around inside of you like a lit stick of dynamite ricocheting in a tight space. I think that you both might fight often because of that until you see that you can balance each other out. 

Since you’re a mercurial pisces, you’re also very subtle so you might occasionally give him the impression that you’re passive aggressive and he won’t understand this at first. It’ll boggle his mind that a woman can have two completely different natures at once. The key here is to learn from each other. 

From him, you can learn to be more practical and to see things more rationally. And from you, HE can learn that some of the best decisions are made at a moment’s notice and that you don’t always have to analyze everything to DEATH in order to get it. 

1 year ago

In honor of the resurrection of the 10+ messages we’ve received about compatibility, we’ve decided to do a celebrity edition of it because we love you all so much. The co-runner of this blog is into the Vampire Diaries and she’s developed a fascination for Ian Somerhalder. She liked him beforehand, but he REALLY stood out to her in this series. She channeled that interest into doing what we always do – We looked up his natal chart and his wife’s to see what their sex life is like! You’re going to have to fan yourself for this one, folks. Please, call life support.

  • Ian’s a Sagittarius with a Scorpio Venus and a Sagittarius Mars with an Aries Moon (dear lord) and his other placements loaded into once again…Sagittarius. You can view his chart here
     
  • His pretty woman Nina Dobrev (she’s adorable, have you seen the pics?) is a level headed Capricorn with a Sagittarius Venus and an Aries Mars with an Aquarian Moon. You can view hers here

Scorpio and Sagittarius are known to bump heads and produce a near unmatched intensity together. Someone with BOTH inside of them is going to produce a person that’s somewhat of a ..trickmaster..a jokester, a person who you have to regularly smack because they think everything is a practical joke. In bed, (especially if their venus and mars are aspected with any other planets) will make someone playful with a capital P. They’ll be warm, adventurous and will be more than happy to turn a trip to Starbucks into an episode where you’re fucking behind someone’s bushes in a parking lot.

Sweet Nina’s probably attractive to him because she’s the definition of an Aries in looks and Sag boys are usually suckers for a killer pair of legs. Even though she looks delicate, Ms. Dobrev also has her OWN version of Sag in Venus. Combined with a Mars located in the god of war himself, you have a woman who’s very feisty. This is someone who probably dedicates a section of their bank account to exploiting the newest, slickest and most daring sex toys. Ever see that image of tumblr where a school girl’s tying her shoes and her reflection is of a punk grinning up at her as she buckles up her mosh boots? THIS is the uttermost definition of that kind of woman. We’re going to steal the phrase - “Smeagol in the streets, Golem in the sheets…”

Together, their publicists probably blow up their phones in the middle of the day wondering why they’ve gone straight to voice mail as they ride each other raw in the backseat of a range rover.  

1 year ago
Well, not literally..thank god. In the traditional sense and for the sake of political correctness, the 7th house is known as the marriage house because its ruled by Libra and Libra governs everything legal and social relationships. If you combine them, you basically get the structure of marriage. The outer shell, the exoskeleton. Like Libra, its everything dealing with appearances. 
"Structure" is the word we’re honing in on. Your 7th house out of the 12 you have represents the structure that you prefer to have in relationships. Whether its a power play or a relationship where you’re the damsel in distress, the 7th governs the dynamic that you prefer. When you want to have an idea about what you’re like in love, you look at your Venus, Mars and your 7th and 8th houses to start out with. Lets look at some examples of how this works -                                                     - - - - - - 
Say another guy has a 7th house Cancer. We’re presented with the “cancer” archetype. Meaning that this guy is going to want a partner who’s - 
Nurturing, loving, caring and is a general mother figure
Who they see in a feminine, matriarchal light 
Someone who’s sensitive, hormonal and who they can protect
7th house water signs think that marriage is as good as an oath written in blood. While 7th house pisceans look for more of a prince or princess figure in a mate, 7th house cancernarians will either look after their mates and portray a male-cancer or want a partner who protects THEM and portrays a female cancer. 
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Say a guy has a 7th House Pisces. In order to understand the relationship structure he prefers, you merge it with the Pisces archetype. Meaning that in a partner, they want someone who - 
Might need “saving” and they’re drawn to people that are self destructive or helpless
Might be an artist or someone who’s very creative, dreamy and has that type of beauty where they’re so beautiful that everyone knows it EXCEPT for themselves
Might value relationships as a “be-all-end-all” - someone that thinks that love should last forever, no matter what
At the same time, you also combine what Pisces typically values in relationships. Think of the 7th house as the pseudo version of a venus sign. So a 7th house pisces would be a bit similar to a venus in pisces. Relationship wise, this person may have a tendency to be more traditional and might hold off on love until they’ve found the one they’ve dreamed of. 

Well, not literally..thank god. In the traditional sense and for the sake of political correctness, the 7th house is known as the marriage house because its ruled by Libra and Libra governs everything legal and social relationships. If you combine them, you basically get the structure of marriage. The outer shell, the exoskeleton. Like Libra, its everything dealing with appearances. 

"Structure" is the word we’re honing in on. Your 7th house out of the 12 you have represents the structure that you prefer to have in relationships. Whether its a power play or a relationship where you’re the damsel in distress, the 7th governs the dynamic that you prefer. When you want to have an idea about what you’re like in love, you look at your Venus, Mars and your 7th and 8th houses to start out with. Lets look at some examples of how this works - 

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  • Say another guy has a 7th house Cancer. We’re presented with the “cancer” archetype. Meaning that this guy is going to want a partner who’s - 
  1. Nurturing, loving, caring and is a general mother figure
  2. Who they see in a feminine, matriarchal light 
  3. Someone who’s sensitive, hormonal and who they can protect

7th house water signs think that marriage is as good as an oath written in blood. While 7th house pisceans look for more of a prince or princess figure in a mate, 7th house cancernarians will either look after their mates and portray a male-cancer or want a partner who protects THEM and portrays a female cancer. 

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  • Say a guy has a 7th House Pisces. In order to understand the relationship structure he prefers, you merge it with the Pisces archetype. Meaning that in a partner, they want someone who - 
  1. Might need “saving” and they’re drawn to people that are self destructive or helpless
  2. Might be an artist or someone who’s very creative, dreamy and has that type of beauty where they’re so beautiful that everyone knows it EXCEPT for themselves
  3. Might value relationships as a “be-all-end-all” - someone that thinks that love should last forever, no matter what

At the same time, you also combine what Pisces typically values in relationships. Think of the 7th house as the pseudo version of a venus sign. So a 7th house pisces would be a bit similar to a venus in pisces. Relationship wise, this person may have a tendency to be more traditional and might hold off on love until they’ve found the one they’ve dreamed of. 

1 year ago
After your extensive 3 day wait, we give you the much awaited Venus Aspect Pluto -

Overview – For the diehard astro fans out there, Pluto is said to be ruled by Hades himself. Pluto rules mirth, obsession, suppressed rage and a secret underlying need for control. At its best, it represents transformation, regeneration and breathes new life when you’re on verge of collapsing. Its the direct passageway into the astral realm next to pisces. In love, Pluto doesn’t believe in second best or fly by romances. To Pluto, in exchange for their heart – you belong to them forever.

Sextiles, Trines and some Conjunctions of this aspect give someone an incredible sense of intuition. These people often have a ferociously prominent sex drive and will navigate between two extremes – Either they’ll exhaust their bodies by using sex as a method of ‘exercise’ because they subconsciously equate sex to spiritual transformation or they’ll radiate that sexuality, but will hold out for the ones they deem worthy of their time. 
+ These people are ridiculously passionate and in love, they’d willingly die for the people that they care for. Pluto, like Neptune represents a tendency towards obsession because everything it believes must be absolute. There’s no half assing anything or attempting to manipulate the environment around these people. Their senses are very fine tuned and they tend to pick on on details and subtle nuances that others could have never imagined. Consider it a gift from Scorpio. 
Squares and Oppositions leave someone in a position of diplomacy. Since Scorpio used to co-rule Mars alongside Ares, the tendencies towards rage and a need for control become highlighted with this aspect. People with these particular aspects have a need to control their partner or they require that there’s a constant struggle for power. To Scorpios in general, its rare that they can function in relationships unless there’s some sort of hot, underlying tension seeping beneath the surface. In love, those with this aspect will either find a partner who they can dominate or someone that they give the impression they’re being dominated by, but pull the strings in secret.
+ This aspect at its best gives someone the natural ability to be so passionate that everything they touch sort of ‘gleams’ with their signature. These are the people that walk around having a sense of magnetism that you can see from a mile away. But at the same time, you can’t help but feel uncomfortable around them because they take the conflict within themselves and transfer it to the world at large by accident. At its worst, you also might be dealing with a self destructive asshole who believes that destroying everything around them will help them alleviate the pain in their hearts.

After your extensive 3 day wait, we give you the much awaited Venus Aspect Pluto -

Overview – For the diehard astro fans out there, Pluto is said to be ruled by Hades himself. Pluto rules mirth, obsession, suppressed rage and a secret underlying need for control. At its best, it represents transformation, regeneration and breathes new life when you’re on verge of collapsing. Its the direct passageway into the astral realm next to pisces. In love, Pluto doesn’t believe in second best or fly by romances. To Pluto, in exchange for their heart – you belong to them forever.

Sextiles, Trines and some Conjunctions of this aspect give someone an incredible sense of intuition. These people often have a ferociously prominent sex drive and will navigate between two extremes – Either they’ll exhaust their bodies by using sex as a method of ‘exercise’ because they subconsciously equate sex to spiritual transformation or they’ll radiate that sexuality, but will hold out for the ones they deem worthy of their time.

+ These people are ridiculously passionate and in love, they’d willingly die for the people that they care for. Pluto, like Neptune represents a tendency towards obsession because everything it believes must be absolute. There’s no half assing anything or attempting to manipulate the environment around these people. Their senses are very fine tuned and they tend to pick on on details and subtle nuances that others could have never imagined. Consider it a gift from Scorpio. 

Squares and Oppositions leave someone in a position of diplomacy. Since Scorpio used to co-rule Mars alongside Ares, the tendencies towards rage and a need for control become highlighted with this aspect. People with these particular aspects have a need to control their partner or they require that there’s a constant struggle for power. To Scorpios in general, its rare that they can function in relationships unless there’s some sort of hot, underlying tension seeping beneath the surface. In love, those with this aspect will either find a partner who they can dominate or someone that they give the impression they’re being dominated by, but pull the strings in secret.

+ This aspect at its best gives someone the natural ability to be so passionate that everything they touch sort of ‘gleams’ with their signature. These are the people that walk around having a sense of magnetism that you can see from a mile away. But at the same time, you can’t help but feel uncomfortable around them because they take the conflict within themselves and transfer it to the world at large by accident. At its worst, you also might be dealing with a self destructive asshole who believes that destroying everything around them will help them alleviate the pain in their hearts.


07 . 01 . 2013
Oh, this is going to be a good one. I’ve been waiting to cover these last two aspects - 



Quick Overview - Neptune is ruled by (I almost said Triton, god help us all) - Poseidon in greek myth and represents the ebb and flow of the gentleness and sincerity of humanity and the heavy tide of delusions that drown mankind with its obsessions. Neptunian people often have a dream like quality to them. You never know what they’re really thinking and you can never pinpoint why you feel like you’re stranded on a distant planet when they’re nearby. People with Neptunian placements have a tendency to give the world the best example of what happens when you dedicate your life to something that only you can see. 



Happier Venus-Neptune aspects are going to give someone the tendency to delve into spirituality or have an interest ..or obsession with what the naked eye can’t see. They’re curious kittens and will never take anything at face value. They’re enthralled by what’s lurking under the surface and make very sensitive people and lovers that are fascinated by fairy tale like endings and dynamics. They make women that wait for their princes or princess charmings and men that willingly throw themselves into the depths of love affair after love affair to find their ‘soul mate.’ These are the ones that often make 100 point lists about what their ‘ideal lover’ would be like. At their highest however, when they’re not drenched in their own emotions, they have this uncanny ability to see the best in people when others see only murk and darkness. 
At their worst with challenging aspects, please..DO beware. People with Venus-Neptune oppositions and squares are often quite deluded in love. They’re easily mislead and often represent poor and innocent lambs accidentally being dragged to a slaughter. Their hyper sensitivity gets the best of them and sometimes they have a tendency to choose lovers that are as self destructive as themselves. Like mermaids that wake up one day thinking that they’re saints, they go for “troubled” partners and pathological liars that they think that they can magically save with the force of true love. They’re also ridiculously down about themselves because they feel alone in comparison to everyone else because they create this reality where they willingly make themselves into the black sheep, or they ARE the black sheep because its hard for most people to relate to them. These people often need a good friend to drag them out of their habits because if you leave them on their own, they’ll be one step away from destroying themselves because if they’re not falling in love to escape reality, they’ll be creating a reality out of another kind of addiction. 

Oh, this is going to be a good one. I’ve been waiting to cover these last two aspects - 

Quick Overview - Neptune is ruled by (I almost said Triton, god help us all) - Poseidon in greek myth and represents the ebb and flow of the gentleness and sincerity of humanity and the heavy tide of delusions that drown mankind with its obsessions. Neptunian people often have a dream like quality to them. You never know what they’re really thinking and you can never pinpoint why you feel like you’re stranded on a distant planet when they’re nearby. People with Neptunian placements have a tendency to give the world the best example of what happens when you dedicate your life to something that only you can see. 

Happier Venus-Neptune aspects are going to give someone the tendency to delve into spirituality or have an interest ..or obsession with what the naked eye can’t see. They’re curious kittens and will never take anything at face value. They’re enthralled by what’s lurking under the surface and make very sensitive people and lovers that are fascinated by fairy tale like endings and dynamics. They make women that wait for their princes or princess charmings and men that willingly throw themselves into the depths of love affair after love affair to find their ‘soul mate.’ These are the ones that often make 100 point lists about what their ‘ideal lover’ would be like. At their highest however, when they’re not drenched in their own emotions, they have this uncanny ability to see the best in people when others see only murk and darkness. 

At their worst with challenging aspects, please..DO beware. People with Venus-Neptune oppositions and squares are often quite deluded in love. They’re easily mislead and often represent poor and innocent lambs accidentally being dragged to a slaughter. Their hyper sensitivity gets the best of them and sometimes they have a tendency to choose lovers that are as self destructive as themselves. Like mermaids that wake up one day thinking that they’re saints, they go for “troubled” partners and pathological liars that they think that they can magically save with the force of true love. They’re also ridiculously down about themselves because they feel alone in comparison to everyone else because they create this reality where they willingly make themselves into the black sheep, or they ARE the black sheep because its hard for most people to relate to them. These people often need a good friend to drag them out of their habits because if you leave them on their own, they’ll be one step away from destroying themselves because if they’re not falling in love to escape reality, they’ll be creating a reality out of another kind of addiction. 

1 year ago
Anonymous asked
Meant to be Lovers or Friend? Me: Sun Aquarius/Libra Moon/Capricorn Venus/Taurus Mars with Aquarius Rising. Him: Sun Pisces/Aquarius Moon/Aquarius Venus/Aries Mars. Not sure of his rising sign tho'.

Depends. The guy seems like someone who’s going to want a lover who doesn’t like conventional relationship dynamics. Since they’re made up of pisces, aquarius AND aries, they’re going to have their sex drive pointing in the direction of someone thats going to constantly keep them guessing - probably someone androgynous or who can occasionally make them submissive when his Aries Mars wants to  be dominant. 

I think that you’ll be able to understand him in conversation and might have the same habits or tendencies, but you won’t spark his interest sexually. If you do, it won’t be sustained. 

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